You can not design and control all the time, of course! but here are some suggestions to help you meet any new person. And remember-even with an appointment recommended by a friend, always be cautious.
Blind dates should be in a public place
You do not know this person, so supply your own transportation. And if you get a strange feeling of him (or her) to be careful, and excuse yourself early. We have our own alarm system that tells us when something is wrong so do not exceed.
Blind dates are not fine dining
Blind dates should be structured to be short. If you do not like your date, life will be easier if you plan a coffee date. If you like them, you can sit and keep talking. But it is difficult to chew and speak and endure a long lunch when you're uncomfortable with someone.
Wear something comfortable on the date that you know you look good in
An appointment has never seen before so you do not need new clothes. Never wear anything too tight, even if you do not want to reject the latest books you've gained. You feel unhappy and self-awareness. Wear flattering clothes for the date you focused.
Choose a safe for your first appointment
Blind dates should not be planned around a dangerous activity. Unless you are both in the U.S. Special Forces, swim with sharks, bungee jumping off a bridge, blow up airplanes or alligator hunting is not a good idea. Do not feel pressured to do anything risky. I know a guy who took his blind date in a small boat. The boat rocked and dipped it in a dirty pond. It was their first and last date.
Do something simple and familiar
A blind date should be a pleasurable activity. Be challenged to do something you've never done before can turn into a bad date you can not fix. One of my friends went bowling unwittingly date. She regarded herself as a good athlete. However, what she discovered she was not a pitcher. When he was in turn, throw the ball, it went in the air and landed in other ways. She was mortified. And there's nothing to say the date (between his stifled laughter) which could make him feel better.
Consider the following before your date :
* Do not talk about your exes or you run a bucket of cold water on your time together.
* Pay attention to all the nervous tics, that you said that you have. Now, you probably have developed skills to manage one of the following : thrilling, twisting a piece of your hair, vigorously shake the leg or foot, drumming your fingers on the table, picking at your nail polish, chewing gum, or ice crunching. All of the above has the potential to irritate your date.
* Turn your cell phone unless you have asked a friend to call and check on you. Do not talk to your cell with someone else.
* Conversation is reciprocal, so make sure your date to talk. Also, listening to what you say. Do not boast about your position, money, cars, things, or who you know. Trying to impress someone is the worst way to try and impress someone.
Are some positive visualization before your date
View on your blind date. You can not "magic" date someone else that what they are, but you can imagine having a good time, no matter who you are with. Do not go out on a blind date in a bad mood. You deserve better and your date.
Find your sense of humor before exiting. Think of times in the past that were really funny and be prepared to tell any of these stories. The more you smile and laugh, the closer you are, makes you blind, a date memorable.
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