First Date Tips

The dates can be difficult and the first can be painful. I was in a committed relationship for several years now, but I still remember some of disastrous first dates that I had in the past.

Of course, the important thing is to be yourself and not too hard. I know, I know, easier said than done. And the nerves are to be expected. But there are positive ways to spend that first date and even to make it a resounding success.

Just follow this list of dating tips to start your dating experience the right way.

- Meet your date out to where your date and will drive yourself there. This way, if you decide you want to bail early on that first date, you will not be trapped. In addition, if things do not work out, you can completely avoid the question of whether to invite your date or not to your door. So when you have your own car, there will be less need to worry about security, for example, your date will not know where you live.

- Keep the date simple and fairly short. This way, you will not have to lock yourself in a day or evening of several steps that you enjoy it. If things go well on that first date, you can always extend it by adding more activities on the fly. Or you can simply agree to continue testing tomorrow.

- Being the only one to end the first date. Leave them guessing and wanting more. It is not necessary to end the date abruptly or rudely, just make your excuses to a reasonable stopping point, then stick to it.

- Dress with care and caution for the first time. Remember that your first date knows very little about the person you are. He or she will take you at face value and you do not want to give the wrong impression before he or she has a chance to get to know you.

- Wear clothing that you're comfortable and confident in. First dates are very uncomfortable without a tight belt biting you around the waist or neckline having to be pulled up or pulled closed.

- If you have decided the date, be specific about where you go. This will make the date more comfortable for you both, and prevent another person from wearing inappropriate clothing for the activity / venue. Save the surprises when you know better!

- Ask lots of probing questions about your time to show your interest to him or her. The most interesting dates tend to be those who listen more than they talk about themselves. Major themes to start with are work, leisure, sports and family. For best results on this first date, I advise you to avoid discussing politics, religion or any other controversial topics.

- Go easy on the perfume or aftershave. The point is to be attractive but not offensive. And many people are allergic to perfumes, so be careful.

- Pay careful attention to your personal hygiene. Do not forget to brush your teeth and mouthwash use before going out. DAB on the deodorant or antiperspirant spray. Clean / file your nails. Put yourself in ... this is the first time, after all!

- If your date involves a meal or snack of some sort, do not order sloppy food. The last thing you want to drip is your food all along your forehead or in your lap! If you do not pay for what you order, try to stay in the middle range of the menu. This is not the time to enjoy your date.

Follow these simple rules and your first date is much more likely to go well. So get out there and have a nice date.
First Date