What Should You Do After Your First Date

The first date with a woman can be a nerve-wracking time. You've spent the last hour or two with her, and you begin to ask "what's next?

So what should you do at this stage?

Well your actions on this should be based on how the transition date.

If you had a great time, then you know you can try another date.

On the other hand, if you do not click on two, then you must reduce your losses and do not attempt a second date.

To give you an idea of what you should do, I've included four different results that you committed once your date has concluded.

When you reach the end of the day, you should make a rapid assessment and make a decision based on which of these four results you want.

* Spend your Separate Ways

Let's be honest here ...

It will be the first dates where you do not get with a woman.

Either there was no chemistry or your personalities do not match, it will be obvious that the two of you do not go on a second date.

Once you realize it does not terminate on the date and reduce your losses.

Since the time was short, you really have not lost that much time or money. By ending the date quickly, you'll be able to avoid hurt feelings and move on to the woman next door.

So when you realize that the date was wrong, just end and tell him you have things to do.

But please be honest and do not promise to call you plan never to speak again.

* You put up a second date

Many guys think a first date is only effective if you end up having sex. In my opinion, this is wrong.

There are many times when you want to have fun on a first date, but do not want it to lead to sex. This is especially true if you are seeking a long term relationship.

On your first date, you'll probably have an idea if there is chemistry between you two. At this point, you can try two things:

First, you can propose a "relocation" (I'll cover this in the next section) and go on a second date immediately.

Or you can end the date if one of you has already made plans after the first date.

Now, if you had to leave after the first date, I suggest you immediately set up a monitoring day.

Here's how

As you're ending the day, take something from the conversation and playing into concrete plans for landing that second date.

For instance if she expressed interest in a particular type of music that you mention the loan of a group that is similar to its taste. Then ask if she wants to "Tag Along" with you.

Or even now that you've broken the ice, you could go to dinner or promise her a home cooked meal. The point is one of the first appointment at the end, immediately make plans for the second plan.
* Transition immediately to the second date

A technique of using many types at the end of a first date is to do a 'venue change'. This is where you leave the location of your first date and immediately go to another place.

Since you decide to switch places the woman will subconsciously believe that you went to the first date of a second date.

As I mentioned earlier, your first date should be real casual. But if you feel a lot of chemistry has been built, you can use a venue change to continue the positive emotions and go someplace where the two of you will have the chance to know each other better.

The best way to make a venue change is to plan before the first date. If things go well, you can casually mention you're going to meet some friends there and ask her if she wants to "Tag Along".

If she accepts, you must immediately leave the location of your first date and transition right into the second.

* Making sex

No matter if you fired a change has taken place or a single date, it could be the opportunity to have sex with a woman on the first date.

Now before I continue, I just want to mention that having sex on the first date is an event that does not happen very often, especially if you try to build a relationship. So do not be too disappointed if this does not happen.

On the other hand, if you're determined to have sex then you should first seek
if you interested in a sexual way. The best way to find out is to kiss her. What I do is use 'The Kiss Test' of the double-Your Dating.

If you notice that it wants to make things more intimate, you can try to return to your seats. Then, once you're private, you can let nature take its course and let the rest of the evening evolve.
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