The Art of Flirting

Flirting is the way most people determine whether or not a member of the opposite sex is interested in them. Here is a quick overview on how you should go on the complex, sometimes fun, sometimes not so fun, task of flirting. It all beings with your approach.

The approach

A person approaches the other. They move in physical proximity. One thing is clear: NO approach equals NO possibility of initiating contact. You must approach!

Example: A woman sits next to a man in a pub, or a man is standing next to a woman in a dance club. This is the first step. Once you approach, you begin looking for signs.

Signs

The person who was approached always signal the presence of the other in some way ... a sign. This signal is not like a train whistle, however, more a subtle body language that you can learn to recognize. For example, he or she simply look in May, go to make room, nod slightly, or signal with a glancing eyes.

A display of total forgetfulness of one who is close usually indicates the total lack of interest. Do not be discouraged. But if the one you approached shows absolutely no interest, it is time to regroup and try again. But let's say that this approach works. You have your positive acknowledgment now? The time to talk

The verbal exchange

The two people in May and then engage in a verbal exchange about impersonal mild, unimportant issues such as weather or the scene around them. The key word here is mild.

This is the place of the conventional intelligent "online", but intelligence is not necessary. At this point, a verbal exchange is not the purpose of sharing valuable insights about life or determining philosophical compatibility. It's just a vehicle for the development of contact.

Examples: Verbal openings could include anything from "please pass the pickles" to "you look great tonight", to "Have you seen the waitress'. Without some form of response verbal, it is very unlikely that the next step is to happen. Let's say everything goes as planned. The time of body language.

Body Language

During a period of time, a couple who started talking in May also start to move physically from one another, to turn to one another, until, if everything goes well, they are fully respond to another. This is your goal.

This step may take several minutes or hours. . . or weeks or months. . . to achieve. Yet, without this physical reorientation toward another, not very many things can happen to give the people who turn their backs toward you for long periods of time! But if they are not ...

Touching

The woman or man (usually the woman) touches the other in a light, fleeting way. Examples: A couple might accidentally brush their hands against one another while drinking a glass or woman can pat the man on the arm to the middle of a joke. The exchange of very subtle, almost glancing touches May continue for some time, and if all goes well, can degenerate into a mere affection shown by couples who are up to date. If you've reached this point, flirting became the beginning of a relationship. The Art of Flirting should always end with the beginning of a relationship. Now get out there and flirt.
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